@spavis@mathowie Oh! That was not the -intent- of the thing I said, but I 100% see how it can be read that way. What I had been trying to say was “this is wrong. they probably fucked up. let’s check.” Not that it matters, but my context was a business decision and not an interpersonal issue.
@spavis@mathowie To me, there is a world of difference between “assume a product decision was not malicious” and “assume an unwanted advance or derisive comment was not malicious”